Impermanence

It have been more than a year since I post here. Suddenly i have much thoughts and decided to pen it down:

When you are alone facing the cruelty of this society and surroundings, you got to depend on yourself, you only can pour out your grievances to the four walls, cry under your warm blanket silently, thinking back of what has happened and why it happened. You want to express yourself but you just can’t and you swallow every single unhappiness. You begin to feel hopelessly helpless, as if the whole world is against you and nothing goes right for you. You ask yourself WHY. But there is no answer. You can make yourself feel a bit better by telling yourself that all this you are going through is vital to build you up into a person of great strength and compassion, so that when you have grown strong, you can encourage those people who is going through what you have gone through. Nothing bad will last, like a lift, when it goes down it will go up and so on.  When you are feeling down, angry but cannot express yourself, depressed and lonely, remember the law of nature: Impermanence. Nothing will stay the same for long. Brace up and face the world, as it is going to train you up into a stronger person. Do not go astray by walking the wrong route, making unwholesome thoughts and making the wrong choices. It is not easy not to be influenced by negativity. As you face the society and the world, always have a firm moral value that will act like a bright lamp to guide you along to the right path. Remember, the law of nature.

ORD reflection

ORD LOOOOOOO.....! haha. In this 2years, learnt a lot, experienced a lot and met a lot of different people. what i learn?? i learn that sometimes in life do not take things too seriously, then your life would be a lot happier. I had precious memories in SAF. In my army days, it is separated into 4 stages. 1st stage: BMTC Orion Company at Tekong. 2nd stage: Signal Institute. 3rd stage: 12C4I SATCOM. Stage 3A: Ex Wallaby at Australia. The WORST is Stage 1. Best are Stages 2 and 3A. At Signal Institute life was easy and memorable. At stage 3A in Australia i had a lot fun.
Wahhahaha....working is next at Koyo Kaiun Asia, a Japanese Tanker Company...starting work at 11Jun2012.
Below are the souvenirs from Army.

Personality Research

There are many hundreds and thousands of different personalities in this world. However we can have a general grouping of personalities. Let me explain the difference between loud and quiet people.

Type 1: Loud

Under loud it can be further classified into groups:

A) Loud and Easygoing (this type of people talk loudly and goes with the crowd, they are
mostly kind-hearted souls)

B) Loud and Difficult (this type of people talk loudly and insist on his own ways, often
calculative and selfish)

C) Loud and Idealistic (this type of people talk loudly and have their own ideas. Their ideas are often constructive. These are leaders)

D) Loud and Afraid (this type of people talk loudly and condemn people to protect their own weakness. They make use of others to cover their cowardly self)

E) Loud and Inaccurate (this type of people talk loudly about things but most of it doesn't happen that way)


Type 2: Quiet

Under quiet it can also be further classified into groups:

A) Quiet and Abiding (this type of people follow things law by law. They are often honest people and will be stepped over and criticized by some insensitive souls.)

B) Quiet and Self-centered (this type of people often only think about themselves and little do they communicate with others)

C) Quiet and Steady (although this type of people doesn't talk much, they are trustworthy, compassionate and also have his ideas sometimes. Their benevolence will cause many to like him, except those few bad apples who like to take advantage of their benevolence and their good temper)

D) Quiet Hidden Dragon (this type of people does not talk much and express his ideas to others. They lack confidence to express but in actual fact their ideas are the most valuable. These silent leaders will surely succeed next time)


Other than quiet and loud, there are other personalities too.

Type 3: Others

A) Kind (forgiveness, selfless. often bullied by small people)

B) Honest (straight forward, will not hide anything.)

C) Selfish (after doing everything, he must have the benefit)

D) Dishonest (tell lies and do things secretively)

E) Arrogant (always think he will do better than others and thinks that others are doing things under expectation)

F) Backstbbers (backstab to protect himself and to get what he want)

G) Bad-mouthers (talk bad things behind people back, ruin people reputation. talk about things that never happen)

H) Cunning (they will observe the situation and adapt to it, so he will be safe and will not be condemned by others. sometimes will hurt sensitive people. this type of people are smart and will change into many personalities to adapt to the environment, either to make himself known to others or to protect himself)

That is all.Of course there are many other personality but it is too long to explain every single one. You fall into which category? it is time to change if you fall into some bad personality types. One person can have 2 or more personality kinds mixed together.

If in your life you meet good people, appreciate it. You meet bad people, learn from him that you will not become him, also appreciate it because he gave you a chance to learn.

insights from past few months

did not update for 2months already...ord-ing soon!!! less than 2 months. having a 6days break now.

lessons learnt for the past 2months:
- have confidence, don't be afraid of who you are
- be your true self
- if you think you have done what is right, ignore unnecessary criticism

yep, we learn as we grow as a person. Above all, we need to maintain a kind and benevolent heart.